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The Best Of Friends® Program

Friendships take practice. The Best of Friends® is a 10-week, psychologist-developed small-group program for children aged 7 to 13, using stories, games, role-play, creative activities and real-world practice to build communication, emotional awareness, confidence and healthier friendship skills.

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Friendships take practice

The Best of Friends® is a 10-week, psychologist-developed social and emotional learning program for children aged 7 to 13 who would benefit from more structured practice with friendship, communication, emotional awareness, compromise, confidence or conflict resolution.

Rather than simply talking about social skills, children practise them. Through stories, role-play, games, creative activities, discussion and real-world fieldwork, participants explore common friendship situations, try different responses and build confidence using the skills with other children.

Who may benefit

The program may suit children who:

  • find it difficult to join groups, make friends or maintain friendships
  • become very upset by disagreement, exclusion or changes in friendships
  • find compromise, turn-taking or seeing another person's perspective difficult
  • need support expressing emotions or communicating what they need
  • withdraw, become controlling or lose confidence when social situations become complicated
  • would benefit from practising assertiveness, problem-solving and conflict resolution with peers

Small enough for support. Large enough for real practice.

Groups are intentionally small, typically four to six children, so participants have genuine opportunities to listen, negotiate, cooperate, disagree, repair and try again with peers while receiving active guidance from the facilitator.

For some groups, one to three children may join online alongside the in-clinic group, allowing them to participate in the same structured program and group discussions remotely.

Developed in practice. Evaluated independently.

The Best of Friends® was developed by Educational and Developmental Psychologist Dr Kimberley O'Brien and the Quirky Kid team, drawing on clinical, school and child-development experience.

The program has also undergone independent evaluation through the University of Wollongong and is listed in the Be You Programs Directory and the ACER Wellbeing Program Guide.

What children practise

Across the 10 weeks, children build and rehearse skills including:

  • making and maintaining friendships
  • two-way communication and listening
  • recognising and expressing emotions
  • empathy and perspective-taking
  • compromise, negotiation and problem-solving
  • assertiveness and resilience
  • managing disagreement and repairing conflict
  • teamwork, cooperation and leadership

An award-winning workbook children can keep using

Every participant receives their own 264-page The Best of Friends® workbook to use throughout the program and keep afterwards.

Rather than relying on generic worksheets, the program uses a substantial illustrated resource filled with stories, games, creative activities, fieldwork, cut-outs and interactive exercises. The characters encounter recognisable friendship and emotional situations, giving children a less confronting way to explore what they might think, feel or do themselves.

The Best of Friends® program and resources have received national and international recognition, including from the Australian Book Industry Awards, London Book Fair International Excellence Awards and Speech Pathology Australia.

Why 10 weeks?

Friendship and emotional skills are difficult to build in a single conversation. Children need time to learn a skill, practise it with peers, try it in everyday life and return with new experiences.

The 10-week format allows the group to build progressively from emotional awareness and social expectations towards communication, empathy, assertiveness, conflict resolution, cooperation and teamwork.

Parents are part of the program too

The program includes two individual 30-minute online parent consultations, one before and one after the program, plus weekly email updates with the themes being explored and practical suggestions for home and school.

This helps parents understand what their child is practising and creates opportunities to notice and reinforce those skills between sessions.

Program structure and inclusions

  • 10 weekly sessions, one hour each
  • small, multi-age groups, typically four to six participants
  • one to three children may be able to join online alongside the in-clinic group
  • two 30-minute online parent consultations, before and after the program
  • weekly parent updates with practical ideas for home and school
  • one 264-page award-winning workbook for each child
  • structured activities, stories, role-play, creative tasks and fieldwork

Good to know

The Best of Friends® is a structured group learning program. It does not replace individual psychological assessment or therapy where a child has more complex needs.

Some children with existing diagnoses or significant social, emotional or behavioural difficulties may benefit from a brief pre-screening before joining so we can consider whether the group format is appropriate.

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$ 1,050.00 AUD

Your child's 10-week program includes

  • 10 x one-hour small-group sessions
  • 2 x individual 30-minute online parent consultations
  • weekly parent guidance
  • a 264-page award-winning The Best of Friends® workbook to keep
  • structured activities and fieldwork across the term

Complete 10-week program: $1,050 per child.

Please review the important workshop information before registering. Some children with pre-existing diagnoses may need a pre-screening session at an additional cost. By registering, you accept the Terms and Conditions, including the non-refundable terms.

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